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Leading Through ConflictLeading Through Conflict: How Successful Leaders Transform Differences into Opportunities

As our world grows smaller, opportunities for conflict multiply. Ethnic, religious, political, and personal differences drive people apart—with potentially disastrous consequences—and it's the task of perceptive leaders to bring them together again. World-renowned mediation expert Mark Gerzon argues that leaders have failed to rise to this challenge. Our organizations, schools, and governments remain filled with divisive dictators and everyday managers, instead of what he calls mediators--leaders who transform conflict so that everyone can move forward together. Through absorbing examples drawn from decades of work with organizational, political, and global conflicts of all kinds, Leading Through Conflict provides a powerful new framework for the leader as mediator and outlines eight specific tools these leaders use to transform seemingly intractable differences into progress on deep-seated problems. Both practical and passionate, this book makes the tools of cross-border leaders accessible to anyone who wants to help create healthier companies, communities, and countries.

8 tools for transforming differences into opportunities

  1. Integral vision: committing ourselves to hold all sides of the conflict, in all their complexity, in our minds — and in our hearts.

  2. Systemic thinking: identifying all (or as many as possible) of the significant elements related to the conflict situation and to understand the relationships between these elements.

  3. Presence: applying all our mental, emotional, and spiritual resources to witnessing and transforming the conflict.

  4. Inquiry: asking questions that elicit essential information about the conflict that is vital to understanding how to transform it.

  5. Conscious conversation: becoming aware of our full range of choices about how we speak and listen.

  6. Dialogue: communicating in order to build trust and knowledge that maximizes the human capacity to bridge and to innovate.

  7. Bridging: building partnerships and alliances that cross the borders that divide an organization or community.

  8. Innovation: catalyzing social or entrepreneurial breakthroughs that foster new options for moving through conflicts.

Endorsements

“An absolutely brilliant analysis! As the world becomes more complicated, interdependent and conflicted, the need for “mediating leadership” increases exponentially. Mark Gerzon’s tools and guidelines are immensely practical and beautifully illustrated – in developing the needed mindset and skill set in transforming protective, defensive energy into creative, collaborative energy which seeks a higher third alternative for the good of the whole.”

“This is an extraordinary and original reach into the stuff of leadership. Rather than being a technical treatise, Leading Through Change is a fascinating story of human beings wrestling with the attitudes and levers that move others together and forward.”

“The best leaders don’t manage conflict, they transform it. Mark Gerzon, in Leading Through Change, shares powerful insights, experiences, and practical tools to help leaders see the big picture and become instruments of positive change.”

“Leading Through Conflict bridges the fields of mediation and leadership, pushing the frontiers insightfully, practically, and powerfully. I found it eminently useful and inspiring.”

“I found Leading Through Conflict to be surprisingly useful and provocative. Everyone complains about ‘leaders’—in politics, business, the media, social movements—who primarily magnify conflict for their own purposes, rather than thinking of the common good. Mark Gerzon suggests a practical and specific approach toward a more constructive outcome.”

“Martin Luther King Jr. wisely counseled that we must learn to live together as brothers (and sisters) or perish together as fools. We may readily see this truth and yet with painful honesty ask, “How do we learn to live together?” In Leading Through Conflict, Mark Gerzon provides answers that are compellingly practical and clear.”

“Leading Through Conflict is a timely and important book that inspires the hope that the impossible may be possible and provides a combination to open the lock of intractable conflict.”

—Shelly Wilsey, Associate Director, International Leadership Association, and Deputy Director, James MacGregor Burns Academy of Leadership, University of Maryland

 

 

 
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